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Anal Sex Toys

Anal sex toys let you explore a highly sensitive area at your own pace, with designs for every experience level. This collection covers butt plugs, anal beads, prostate massagers and vibrating toys from B-Vibe, Tantus, Blush and Doc Johnson, with prices from $20. Every anal toy should have a flared base or handle, and the guide below explains what else to look for.
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Buying guide

How to choose anal toys

Comfort comes from three things: a toy that is the right size, plenty of lube and taking your time. The right shape depends on the sensation you want.

01

Pick a type

  • Butt plugs: designed to stay in place, with a tapered tip, narrow neck and flared base.
  • Anal beads: a row of graduated beads for in-and-out sensation.
  • Prostate massagers: curved toys that reach the prostate, the most popular anal toys for men.
  • Vibrating versions add buzz or rumble to any of the shapes above.
02

Start small

If you are a beginner, choose a toy under one inch in diameter. An anal training kit gives you several sizes so you can move up gradually over weeks, not minutes. The best anal toy for a first try is smooth, slim and slightly flexible. Male anal sex toys often add a curve for prostate contact, but the same sizing advice applies.

03

Material and base

Choose body-safe silicone, glass or stainless steel. Avoid porous jelly materials, which are hard to clean. The rectum can draw objects inward, so a flared base, T-shaped base or retrieval ring is essential on every butt toy.

04

Lube and prep

The anus does not make its own lubrication, so use a thick lube and reapply often. Water-based lube is safe with silicone toys. Never use numbing products: discomfort is your body asking you to slow down. Some people like to use a gentle douche beforehand, which is entirely optional.

FAQ

Anal Sex Toys: common questions

Quick answers from our team. Need more help? Call 800-618-6053.

What is the best anal toy for beginners?
The best anal toy for beginners is a small, smooth silicone butt plug under one inch wide with a flared base. It is easy to insert, stays in place and lets you get used to the sensation. A training kit with graduated sizes is a good option if you want room to progress.
What are the best anal toys for men?
Prostate massagers are the most popular anal toys for men because their curved shape reaches the prostate gland. Slim vibrating plugs and beginner-sized beads are also good choices. Look for body-safe silicone, a flared base and a width of around one inch to start.
Why do anal toys need a flared base?
The muscles of the rectum can draw objects inward, and a toy without a base can slip inside completely. A flared base, T-bar or retrieval ring stays outside the body and makes removal easy. Never use household objects or toys without a base for anal play.
What lube is best for anal toys?
Use a thick water-based or silicone lube made for anal play. Water-based formulas are safe with every toy material, including silicone. Silicone lube lasts longer but is best kept to glass, metal or hard plastic toys. Avoid numbing lubes, since pain is a signal to slow down.