Answers to the questions we hear most about privacy, shipping, returns, and choosing your first toy. Still unsure? Call 800-618-6053.
FAQ
Privacy and shipping
How is my order packaged?
How is my order packaged?
Every order ships in a plain box or mailer with no ThirdLust logo and no product names. Product packaging stays inside the outer box. Read how shipping works.
What shows up on my bank statement?
What shows up on my bank statement?
Charges appear under a neutral business name, not the name of an adult store. Order and shipping emails use plain subject lines.
Do I need an account to order?
Do I need an account to order?
No. You can check out as a guest. An account is optional and only helps you track orders and reorder faster.
Orders and returns
Can I change or cancel my order?
Can I change or cancel my order?
Call us as soon as possible at 800-618-6053. If your order has not shipped yet, we will do our best to help.
Can I return a sex toy?
Can I return a sex toy?
Intimate products follow hygiene rules, so eligibility depends on the item and its condition. Our return policy explains what qualifies and how to start a return.
Choosing and caring for toys
What does body-safe mean?
What does body-safe mean?
Body-safe toys are made from nonporous materials such as medical-grade silicone, glass, stainless steel and ABS plastic. They are easy to clean and do not trap bacteria. Avoid jelly rubber and products with a strong chemical smell.
Which lube should I use?
Which lube should I use?
Water-based lube works with every toy and with condoms. Silicone lube lasts longer but can damage silicone toys, so save it for glass, metal and hard plastic. See our lube guide.
How do I clean my toys?
How do I clean my toys?
Wash before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Keep charging ports dry on toys that are only splash proof, and let everything dry fully before storage.
I am new to this. Where should I start?
I am new to this. Where should I start?
Start with something small and simple, such as a bullet or a mini wand from our beginner vibrators, plus a water-based lube. If you have questions, call a real person at 800-618-6053.
Do I have to be 18 to shop?
Do I have to be 18 to shop?
Yes. ThirdLust sells adult products, and you must be 18 or older to visit the site or place an order.