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Arousal Gels and Enhancers

An arousal gel is a topical product that creates a warming, cooling or tingling feeling on sensitive skin, which some people find adds to sensation. This collection also includes warming lubes, delay sprays and over the counter supplements from Sensuva, Doc Johnson, Body Action and Wicked, with prices from $20. Results vary from person to person, so read ingredients and patch test first.
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How to choose an arousal product

Enhancers are about adding sensation, not fixing a problem. None of these products treat a medical condition, and results vary widely. If you have ongoing concerns about desire or erections, a doctor is the right first stop. For everyday basics, see our sexual wellness hub.

Topical arousal gels

A female arousal gel is applied in a small amount to the clitoris or nipples. Common ingredients include menthol or peppermint for a cooling tingle and cinnamon-type warmers for heat. Start with a pea-sized amount, since a little goes a long way.

Warming lube and sensation lubricants

Warming lube heats up gently as you rub it in or breathe on it. It works as a regular lubricant with added sensation. If you want a plain formula instead, browse water-based lube or flavored lube.

Delay sprays and supplements

A delay spray contains a mild desensitizing ingredient applied to the penis to reduce sensitivity. Use the smallest amount, then wipe off excess or wear condoms so a partner does not feel the effect. Never use delay or numbing products for anal play. Supplements sold as a libido booster or male enhancement pill are not regulated like medicine, and results are not guaranteed. Read the full ingredient list and check with a doctor if you take any medication.

Patch test first

  • Test a small amount on your inner arm and wait 24 hours.
  • Skip products with ingredients you react to, such as fragrance or glycerin.
  • Do not apply to broken or irritated skin.
  • Stop use if you notice burning, itching or a rash.

Arousal Gels and Enhancers: common questions

What does an arousal gel do?
An arousal gel creates a warming, cooling or tingling sensation where you apply it, usually on the clitoris or nipples. Many people find this adds to sensation during solo or partnered play. It does not treat any condition, and the effect and its intensity vary from person to person.
Do over the counter male enhancement pills work?
Results from over the counter male enhancement pills vary widely, and these products are not reviewed or approved like prescription medicine. Some people notice no change at all. If you have concerns about erections or stamina, speak with a doctor, who can look for underlying causes and discuss proven options.
Is warming lube safe?
Warming lube is safe for most people, but the ingredients that create warmth can irritate sensitive skin. Patch test on your inner arm first and use a small amount. Avoid it on broken skin, stop if you notice burning or itching, and check toy compatibility before using it with silicone.
How do you use a delay spray?
Apply a small amount to the head and shaft of the penis, following the timing on the label, then wipe or wash off any excess before contact. This keeps the product from transferring to a partner. Use the lowest effective amount and stop if irritation occurs.
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