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Sex Books and Guides

Sex books give you practical, private advice on communication, anatomy and pleasure that you can read at your own pace. This collection includes how-to guides, relationship books and illustrated gift titles from Hachette, Penguin Random House, Simon & Schuster and Chronicle Books, with prices from $20. Use the guide below to find the right title for you, a partner or a gift.
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Buying guide

How to choose a sex book or guide

A good sex guide meets you where you are. Think about what you want to learn, who will read it and if you prefer text, illustrations or exercises.

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Guides for learning

The best sex guides explain anatomy, consent and communication in plain language. Look for authors with backgrounds in sex education, therapy or medicine, and check the publication date so the advice reflects current thinking. Topic guides on areas such as anal play, BDSM basics or LGBTQ relationships go deeper than general titles. Many readers keep one general guide on hand and add a specialist title once they know what they want to learn more about.

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Books for couples

Couples books often include conversation prompts, question lists and activities to try together. They work well alongside our sex games and offer a low-pressure way to talk about preferences. If you want to add a toy, our couples sex toys pair well with a guide. Reading the same chapter separately, then talking about it, is a simple way to start.

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Gift and novelty titles

Illustrated position books, humorous titles and adult coloring books make easy gifts for birthdays, showers and anniversaries. See adult novelties and bachelorette party supplies for more lighthearted options. Check the page count and level of illustration on each listing so the book suits the occasion.

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Reading privately

Books arrive in the same plain, unbranded packaging as every ThirdLust order. Read the description on each listing to confirm the focus and intended reader, so you get a book that answers the questions you actually have.

FAQ

Sex Books and Guides: common questions

Quick answers from our team. Need more help? Call 800-618-6053.

What are the best sex books for couples?
The best sex books for couples combine practical advice with prompts that get you talking, such as question lists, exercises or illustrated ideas to try together. Look for authors with a background in sex therapy or education, and choose a tone that matches yours, from serious to playful.
Are sex guides good for beginners?
Yes. Beginner sex guides explain anatomy, consent and communication in plain language, which builds confidence before you try something new. They let you learn privately at your own pace. Choose a recent title from a qualified author so the information reflects current best practice.
Do sex books make good gifts?
Sex books make thoughtful gifts when you match the tone to the person. Illustrated or humorous titles suit parties and gift exchanges, while practical guides are better as a private gift for a partner. If you are unsure, choose a relationship book that focuses on communication.
Will my book order arrive discreetly?
Yes. Book orders go out in plain, unbranded packaging, and the charge on your statement appears under a discreet billing name. If you have any questions about an order, our customer care team can help at 800-618-6053.