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Sex Restraints and Cuffs

Sex restraints let one partner hold still while the other takes the lead, and they range from soft, beginner-friendly cuffs to leather and steel. Our collection includes handcuffs, under-bed systems, bondage tape, rope, and spreader bars from Sportsheets, Spartacus, Pipedream, and Shots. Prices start from $25, and each order ships in plain packaging.
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How to choose sex restraints

Good restraints feel secure without hurting, and they come off quickly when needed. Choose by comfort level first, then by the type of hold you want.

Start soft

Fuzzy handcuffs, Velcro cuffs, and padded neoprene wraps are the easiest place to begin. They spread pressure across the wrist and open in seconds. Leather and metal sex handcuffs look more serious but need careful fitting, and steel cuffs should always have a key within reach.

Know the main types

  • Bed restraints run straps under the mattress with cuffs at each corner, so no headboard is needed.
  • Bondage tape sticks only to itself, not to skin or hair, which makes it simple to use and remove.
  • Bondage rope is versatile but takes practice to tie safely.
  • A spreader bar holds ankles or wrists apart at a set distance.

Check fit and release

You should be able to slide a finger between any cuff and the skin. Quick-release buckles and snap hooks let you free a partner instantly. Never tie anything across the neck or put strain on joints.

Safety basics for BDSM restraints

Agree on a safe word before you start, and keep safety shears nearby to cut rope or tape fast. Check hands and feet often for coldness, tingling, or color change, and never leave a restrained person alone. Many couples add a blindfold from blindfolds and gags, light impact from whips, paddles and floggers, or a collar and leash. See everything in our main bondage collection.

Sex Restraints and Cuffs: common questions

What are the best restraints for beginners?
Soft cuffs with Velcro or a buckle are the best first restraints. They are comfortable, adjustable, and quick to remove. An under-mattress restraint kit is another easy option because it needs no special furniture. Leave rope and metal cuffs until you are both comfortable with the basics.
How do bed restraints work?
Bed restraints use long straps that run under the mattress and connect to cuffs at each corner. You adjust the strap length to fit your bed and your partner's reach. Most kits fit standard mattress sizes and store flat when you are done.
Is bondage tape safe on skin?
Bondage tape is made to stick only to itself, so it does not pull on skin or hair the way regular tape does. Wrap it snugly but not tightly, avoid the neck and face, and keep safety shears nearby so you can cut it away quickly if needed.
How do you stay safe using sex restraints?
Agree on a safe word or signal before you start, and check in often. Keep safety shears or keys within reach, and watch for numbness or color change in hands and feet. Never leave a restrained partner alone, and release anyone right away if they ask.
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