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Pegging Kits

Pegging toys pair a harness with a dildo designed for anal play, so one partner can wear it for penetration. Our pegging kits come from Tantus, Sportsheets, VeDO, Pipedream, and Shots, from $46. Many include a beginner-sized silicone dildo, an adjustable harness, and sometimes a vibrating bullet, so you have everything you need in one box.
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How to choose pegging toys

A good pegging kit balances comfort for the person receiving with stability for the person wearing it.

Start with the right dildo

Pick a smaller, smooth silicone dildo for your first pegging strap on, around 4 to 5 inches insertable with a slim width. A gentle curve can reach the prostate. The toy must have a flared base. Skip heavy texture and realistic detail at first, since smooth shapes are easier to insert and to clean afterward. Curved prostate massagers are a good way to warm up before using the strap-on.

Choose a stable harness

Two-strap harnesses keep the toy steady and make the angle easier to control. Adjustable straps fit more bodies and let partners of different sizes share one harness. If you want to upgrade later, strap-on harnesses are also sold on their own and work with most flared-base toys. Neoprene and padded nylon feel more comfortable than thin straps.

Vibrating or not

Some kits, including several from VeDO, add a vibrating dildo or bullet that both partners can feel. Vibration adds sensation for the wearer, who otherwise feels little directly. Check whether the motor is rechargeable and how you reach the controls while wearing it. A wireless remote is the easiest option.

Prepare and go slow

  • Use plenty of thick anal lube and reapply often.
  • Start with fingers or a small plug before the strap-on.
  • Agree on a signal to pause, and let the receiving partner set the pace.
  • Some people like to use douches beforehand.

Pegging Kits: common questions

What is the best pegging kit for beginners?
A beginner pegging kit should include an adjustable two-strap harness and a slim, smooth silicone dildo around 4 to 5 inches long with a flared base. That size is comfortable for most first-timers. Kits from Tantus and Sportsheets are popular for their body-safe materials and stable harnesses.
What size dildo is best for pegging?
Start small. An insertable length of 4 to 5 inches and a width under 1.25 inches suits most beginners, and a slight curve can help reach the prostate. You can size up later once you know what feels good. Always choose a toy with a flared base for anal play.
Do I need special lube for pegging?
A thick water-based or hybrid anal lube is the best choice for pegging. It stays slick longer and is safe with silicone dildos. Silicone lube lasts even longer but can damage some silicone toys, so test it first. Use more than you expect to need and reapply often.
Are strap-on kits different from pegging kits?
A pegging kit is a strap-on kit with a dildo chosen for anal play, usually smaller and smoother with a curve. General strap-on kits may include larger or realistic dildos. Any harness can be used for pegging, as long as the toy has a flared base and a comfortable size.
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