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Whips, Paddles and Floggers

A flogger, paddle, or whip lets you try impact play at the intensity you choose, from a soft, thuddy flogger to a firm leather paddle. Our collection includes leather, silicone, and vegan designs from Sportsheets, Rouge, Shots, and Tantus, starting from $22. The guide below covers how each tool feels and which ones suit beginners.
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How to choose impact play toys

Impact toys differ more in sensation than in looks. Thud spreads force over a wide area, while sting concentrates it on a narrow point.

Floggers

Floggers have many tails, called falls, attached to a handle. Wide, soft suede or faux leather falls feel thuddy and are the easiest place to start. Thin or rubber falls feel sharper. Check the handle length and overall weight, since a lighter flogger is easier to control during longer scenes. Practice on a pillow first to learn where the falls land.

Spanking paddles

A spanking paddle delivers broad, even contact. Padded or fur-lined paddles feel gentle, leather sits in the middle, and wood or firm silicone feels more intense. Paddle spanking is easy to control because the striking surface is large and predictable. Silicone paddles from Tantus are nonporous and simple to sanitize.

BDSM whips and crops

Single-tail whips focus force on a small area, so they suit experienced partners who have practiced their aim. A riding crop with a small leather tip is far more controllable than a long whip and makes a good step up from paddles. Leave canes and long single tails until you have plenty of experience.

Safety basics

  • Agree on limits and a safe word before you start.
  • Aim for fleshy areas like the buttocks and thighs. Avoid the spine, kidneys, neck, and joints.
  • Warm up with light strikes and check in often.

Impact play pairs well with bondage restraints and blindfolds for sensory scenes. Browse the full bondage collection for collars and leashes too.

Whips, Paddles and Floggers: common questions

What is the best flogger for beginners?
A flogger with wide, soft falls made from suede or faux leather is the best beginner choice. It spreads force over a large area, which creates a thuddy, warming feel rather than a sharp sting. A shorter handle and light weight make it easier to aim and control during a scene.
Where is it safe to hit with a spanking paddle?
The buttocks and the backs of the upper thighs are the safest areas for paddles because they are well padded. Avoid the lower back, kidneys, spine, tailbone, neck, face, and joints. Start lightly, build intensity gradually, and check in with your partner throughout the scene.
Are leather or silicone paddles better?
Each has advantages. Leather feels classic, makes a satisfying sound, and softens with use, but it needs conditioning and cannot be fully sanitized. Silicone is nonporous, easy to wash, and vegan, though it can feel stingier. Choose silicone if you plan to share toys or want simple cleaning.
How do you clean floggers and BDSM whips?
Wipe faux leather and rubber with a toy cleaner or mild soap and water, then let them dry. Wipe real leather with a damp cloth and treat it with a leather conditioner. Hang floggers so the falls stay straight, and store everything away from heat and direct sunlight.
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