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Butt Plugs

Butt plugs are a simple way to try anal play, built to stay in place hands free thanks to a tapered tip, a narrow neck and a flared base. You will find beginner minis, weighted metal plugs, tail plugs and vibrating styles from Blush, B-Vibe, Shots and Doc Johnson, starting from $26. Every order ships in plain, unbranded packaging.
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How to choose a butt plug

A good anal plug matches your experience level, the sensation you want, and how long you plan to wear it. Start with three questions: how wide, what material, and does it need to do anything besides stay put.

Size and shape

Diameter matters more than length. Beginners usually do best with a widest point around 1 inch, then move up gradually. A tapered tip makes insertion easier, and a slim neck lets the muscles close around the plug so it stays in place. If you want a step-by-step progression, anal training kits include several sizes in one set. Butt plugs for men sometimes have a curved bulb that presses toward the prostate, though dedicated prostate massagers are shaped for that job.

Material and lube

Body-safe silicone is soft and forgiving, which makes it the most common choice for longer wear. Glass and stainless steel are firm, nonporous and easy to sanitize, and metal adds noticeable weight. Always use plenty of lube, since the body does not make its own here. Pair silicone plugs with water-based formulas, or pick a thicker anal lube for longer sessions.

Vibrating, inflatable and tail plugs

  • Vibrating butt plug: adds a motor, often with a remote, for stronger sensation. See the full range of anal vibrators.
  • Inflatable butt plug: starts small and expands with a hand pump. Inflate slowly and stop at any discomfort.
  • Tail butt plug: a standard plug with a decorative tail for costume and pet play. Look for a tail that detaches for easy cleaning.

Safety basics

Only use toys with a flared base for anal play, since anything without one can slip inside. Go slow, relax, and stop if something hurts. Never use numbing products to mask pain. Some people like to rinse beforehand with one of our douches and enemas. Wash plugs with warm water and toy cleaner after each use.

Butt Plugs: common questions

What size butt plug should a beginner start with?
Start with the smallest plug you can find, usually one with a widest point near 1 inch or less. A small silicone plug with a tapered tip is the easiest to insert and wear. Once that feels comfortable over several sessions, move up one size at a time. Training sets make this progression simple.
How long can you wear a butt plug?
Many beginners start with 10 to 15 minutes and build up from there. There is no single rule, so listen to your body and take breaks between longer sessions. Remove the plug if you feel pain, numbness or ongoing discomfort. Soft silicone plugs are usually more comfortable for extended wear than heavy metal ones.
What lube should I use with a butt plug?
Use a generous amount of water-based lube with silicone plugs, since silicone lube can break down some silicone toys. Glass and metal plugs work with any lube, including longer lasting silicone formulas. Anal-specific lubes tend to be thicker, which helps with comfort and means you reapply less often.
How do you clean a butt plug?
Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner after every use, then let it air dry before storing. Nonmotorized silicone and stainless steel plugs can usually be boiled for a few minutes to sanitize. Vibrating plugs should only be washed by hand, following the manufacturer instructions.
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