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LGBTQ+ Sex Toys

Our gay sex toys and LGBTQ+ collection brings together toys chosen for queer, trans, and nonbinary bodies and relationships. You will find harnesses and packers from SpareParts, sleeves and plugs from Perfect Fit, silicone dildos from Tantus, and realistic toys from Doc Johnson, from $22. Every product is described by function and fit, not by gender.
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How to choose LGBTQ+ sex toys

Any toy can be a queer toy. This collection focuses on items that suit a wide range of bodies, with clear sizing and body-safe materials.

Dildos and harnesses

Lesbian dildos and gay dildos are the same product. What matters is size, firmness, and the base. A flared base fits an O-ring harness and is required for anal use. Tantus makes silicone dildos in firm and dual-density options. Pair one with a comfortable strap-on harness, or try a strapless strap-on for shared play.

Packers and gender-affirming gear

A packer sex toy creates a natural bulge under clothing. Soft packers are made for everyday wear, while pack-and-play designs are firm enough for penetration. SpareParts harness briefs hold a packer securely. Check the packer size against your underwear or harness before you buy. Silicone packers last longer than cheaper materials and clean more easily.

Anal and prostate toys

Anal toys suit every body. Start with a small silicone plug that has a flared base, and use plenty of lube. Prostate massagers add a curve aimed at the prostate, and vibrating versions add more sensation. Go slowly, and stop if anything hurts. See anal sex toys for the full range.

Strokers, sleeves, and shared toys

Perfect Fit makes stretchy sleeves, rings, and strokers in soft, durable materials. Browse sex toys for men for more of these, or couples sex toys for options designed for two. Whatever you choose, look for silicone, glass, or stainless steel for the easiest cleaning.

LGBTQ+ Sex Toys: common questions

What are the best gay sex toys for beginners?
A small silicone butt plug with a flared base, a stretchy stroker, and a good water-based lube make an easy starter set. Each one is simple to use and clean. As you learn what you like, add a prostate massager or a vibrating ring for more variety.
What is a packer?
A packer is a soft, penis-shaped item worn in underwear to create a natural bulge under clothing. Trans men and nonbinary people often use them. Some packers are soft for daily wear, while pack-and-play versions are firm enough for sex. Packing briefs or a harness hold it in place.
What is the best dildo for lesbian couples?
Many couples start with a medium-sized silicone dildo with a flared base, so it works by hand or in a harness. Double-ended and strapless designs let both partners feel stimulation at once. Choose a size and firmness you both agree on, and use water-based lube with silicone.
Are LGBTQ+ toys different from other sex toys?
Not always. Most toys work for any body, but some are designed with queer and trans users in mind, such as packers, harness briefs, and strapless strap-ons. This collection groups those items together alongside toys that suit a wide range of bodies and relationships.
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