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Lube and Personal Lubricants

The right lube makes nearly every kind of sex and toy play more comfortable, and it is the simplest upgrade most people can make. Our personal lubricants come in water-based, silicone, hybrid, anal, and flavored formulas from Sliquid, Pjur, Wicked, and ID Lubricants. Prices start from $20, and every bottle ships in plain packaging.
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How to choose lube

The best lube for you depends on what you are doing, what you are using, and how your skin reacts. Start with the base, then narrow by texture, ingredients, and bottle size. A small travel bottle is a smart way to test a new formula before buying a large pump.

Water-based, silicone, or hybrid

  • Water-based lube is safe with every toy material and with latex condoms. It washes off easily but may need reapplying.
  • Silicone lube lasts much longer and works in the shower, but it can wear down silicone toys.
  • Hybrid formulas blend both for a creamy feel with more staying power.

Match it to toys and condoms

Silicone toys pair with a water-based sex lube. Glass, stainless steel, and ABS work with any base. Oil-based products are not safe with latex condoms, so keep oils for massage and non-latex use. Check the label on your condoms if you are unsure.

Read the ingredients

If you are prone to irritation, look for a personal lubricant without glycerin, parabens, fragrance, or warming agents. Sliquid and Intimate Earth focus on short ingredient lists. Patch test any new formula on your inner arm first. Many people shopping for lube for women prefer a thicker gel or hybrid that stays in place.

Pick for the activity

Anal play needs a thicker, longer-lasting formula, so choose from our anal lube range. For oral sex, flavored lube is water-based and tastes sweet. Lube for men used with strokers should be water-based to protect the sleeve material. Thicker gels stay put longer, while thinner liquids feel closer to natural moisture.

Lube and Personal Lubricants: common questions

What is the best lube for beginners?
A plain water-based lube is the best starting point for most people. It works with all toys and condoms, rinses away with water, and rarely stains sheets. Choose a formula without fragrance or warming ingredients so you can learn how your body responds before trying specialty options.
Can you use silicone lube with silicone toys?
It is best to avoid it. Silicone lube can bond with the surface of some silicone toys and leave them sticky or pitted over time. Use a water-based lube with silicone toys instead. If you really want silicone lube, test a small dab on the base of the toy first.
Is lube safe to use with condoms?
Water-based and silicone lubes are safe with latex and polyisoprene condoms. Oil-based lubes, lotions, and massage oils can weaken latex and should not be used with it. Some polyurethane condoms tolerate oils, but always check the condom packaging to confirm.
Why does lube feel sticky?
Water-based lubes become tacky as the water evaporates, especially formulas with glycerin. A few drops of water or a little more lube usually makes it slick again. If stickiness bothers you, try a silicone or hybrid formula, which stays smooth for much longer.
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