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How to choose a strap-on
Strap-ons are worn by people of every gender and used in every kind of pairing, from a lesbian strap on setup to pegging. The decisions are the same either way: harness, dildo, and fit.
Kit or separate pieces
A kit bundles a harness and a strap on dildo, so it is the simplest first purchase. Buying a separate strap on harness lets you pick a dildo you already love and swap sizes later. Most harnesses use an O-ring, so check that the dildo has a flared base wide enough to stay put.
Harnessed or strapless
A strapless strap on has a bulb that the wearer holds internally, with no straps at all. It gives the wearer direct sensation but takes some practice and pelvic muscle control. Harness styles feel more stable for beginners. Some strapless models add a vibrating motor in the bulb, which the wearer feels directly.
Size and material
- Start smaller than you think. You can size up later.
- Body-safe silicone is warm, firm, and easy to clean. Browse silicone dildos for compatible options.
- A vibrating strap-on adds a bullet near the base for the wearer.
- Use water-based lube with silicone.
Comfort for the wearer
Look for wide, padded straps and adjustable buckles. Brief and jock-style harnesses feel more like underwear, while classic two-strap designs give a firmer hold. Washable nylon and neoprene harnesses are easy to care for, while leather needs occasional conditioning. If anal play is part of the plan, a dedicated pegging kit pairs a smaller dildo with a comfortable harness.